Thirsty for the Right Thing: What Addiction Is Really Looking For
At the men's retreat this past weekend, one line started more conversations than anything else I said: Addiction is a hunger pointed at the w
When Being Right Costs Too Much
With an election five weeks away and the holidays right behind it, a lot of us are already bracing for the family table.In the fall of 2024, the Ameri
What If It's Not About You? Staying Calm When Attacked
When conflict hits, the real battle often begins in the few seconds before a reaction takes over. This post explores why anger and fear surge so quickly, and offers two simple but powerful keys for interrupting that cycle before damage is done. Blending biblical wisdom, brain science, and practical spiritual habits, it reveals how a brief pause, a short prayer, and a shift in perspective can completely change the outcome of hard moments. It also uncovers the deeper reason defensiveness has such power—and what it looks like to become secure enough in God’s love to respond with strength instead of reaction.
Knots: How we try to untangle the issues in our lives.
Have you ever stopped and watched a small child trying to do something he can’t do yet? Work a zipper. The lid on the jar. The bike without trai
Meditation: To Empty or Fill?
For decades, popular self-help culture has promoted positive affirmations and Eastern meditation techniques designed to empty the mind, yet lasting peace remains elusive for many. Surprisingly, modern neuroscience reveals exactly why simply repeating "I am enough" or trying to clear your thoughts fails to create genuine neurological change. There is a profound difference between a meditation practice that subtracts from your life and one that fills it, and your brain was actually scientifically designed for the latter. Explore the fascinating intersection of ancient biblical wisdom and adult neuroplasticity to understand why a stressed, braced nervous system cannot embrace the spiritual truths you already know. Dive into the full article to discover how to stop white-knuckling your way through life and begin experiencing root-level, lasting transformation.
Why Do I Still Struggle With Anxiety as a Christian?
Anxiety is not a faith failure. A pastor and crisis chaplain explains what's really happening in your brain — and what Scripture actually says about anxious believersWhy Do I Still Struggle With Anxiety as a Christian?You prayed about it. You memorized Philippians 4:6. You may have even confessed it, wondering if the anxiety itself was the sin. And it's still there — the tight chest before you fall asleep, the mind that won't stop rehearsing tomorrow.So you ask the quiet question a lot of believers are afraid to say out loud: If I really trusted God, would I still feel this way?After forty years of pastoring and crisis chaplaincy — sitting with people on the worst days of their lives — I can tell you: this question is one of the most common, and one of the most misunderstood, in the church.
Why Do I Keep Waking Up at 3am? What Your Nervous System — and God — Are Saying in the Dark
Waking up briefly around 3am is normal. In the second half of the night your sleep gets lighter, and your body's cortisol — the hormone that
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